Nice, good job

But really meaningful differences are penalized instead of subsidised.

We need the conversation to go toward rewarding individuals who make sacrifices like this.

You don’t like long boat trips in the Pacific?

Edit so there’s a tradition of physical proximity for certain things, which don’t make much sense with modern communication.

There’s other things like research, physical work etc. we can make space for people to travel and make long term commitments to locale changes.

This is a really good example of why individuals can’t make a difference, systemic changes are needed.

There were a couple of people on fetlife that broke down the applicant process for gangbangs, and made nice flowcharts about how the applicants washed out at different screening steps.

A few hundred applicants filtered down to like 2 or 3% that ended up attending.

1000 people successfully screened would need like 50000 applicants. You are getting into geographic constraints at that point.

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