Klnsfw 🏳️‍🌈

On the subject of pegging, I think it has to do with the fact that in a heteropatriarchal system, the person being penetrated is by definition dominated. Originally, of course, it was women, and vaginal penetration.

By extension, any form of penetration is seen as an expression of domination. This is true for pegging, as it is for anal sex particularly when it’s between men (it’s not uncommon to see confusion between bottom and sub).

I think it’s a worldview that’s ethically unbearable, and moreover it locks sexuality and sensuality into limited, bland and sad scripts.

Reported for homophobia and biphobia. Welcome to my blocklist, OP

I have +/-40 blocked communities, most of them because they’re about genAI, plus a few ones about practices which turn me off.

I’m in a similar situation, but in the other role.

My significant other suggested that we open up our relationship, so that I could explore my sexuality.

So, I go to gay clubs when I feel like it, and then I tell her what the guys were like, what we did together. She’s turned on hearing what happened

Quite the same: we’re an open couple, and the guys at my local gay sauna are very friendly. :3

But if I had to chose, I wouldn’t think twice, it would be my significant other. So 100% “one partner for life”

Even though I don’t want my partners to end up in my mouth, I sometimes taste a little by accident and I don’t mind: usually, it’s rather bland and a little salty.

But once, a guy had a really unpleasant taste, a kind of bitterness. Yucky.

Maybe it was a matter of diet or maybe he was a smoker, I don’t know.

I’m a bi guy, and I have the same preferences when I’m sender or receiver.

Penetration: inside, because there’s no change of pace. I always use condoms, I don’t care about creampie

Blowjob: outside, because you never know. An unexpectedly huge/powerful load, an unexpected taste, hitting the back of the throat… The risk of retch (me or my partner) is a deal breaker for me

Generally speaking I don’t like the idea of prowess. In a sexual context, it sounds even worse because I couldn’t be sure of the consent of my partner. Let’s say I’m the 2978th, do they really want to have sex with me, or is it just sunk cost fallacy? (In other words if they quit the challenge now, they “lose” several years dedicated to the challenge)

So, no.

I feel uncomfortable with this one, too. What I read is “KKK members can only do acts of kindness”. Maybe it’s supposed to be sarcastic, but it doesn’t work for me

I don’t identify anything as sexy in men’s outfits. But I do pay attention to coordinating what I wear, to my shoes, accessories, little queer details.

Once, when my girlfriend lived in another town, I picked her up at the station by car. On the way, she started caressing me through my pants. We soon found a way out and made love hidden in a vineyard.

On another occasion, I joined her in her town. We decided to go to the movies, without thinking that it would end in a blowjob in a theater where we were the only spectators.

And another time, we went to the beach, but by the time we got there, the weather had turned. I fingered her in the car while we looked out at the rainy sea. So romantic.

In a relationship built on exclusivity, running into your partner having sex with someone else is a shock for everyone: the one who’s cheating, the one who’s being cheated on, and the other one. I’ve been there.

The moment your love life collapses, you don’t wonder if this isn’t the opportunity to spice up your sexual life.